Author: Kathryn Watson, Read full article in Brit.co
Interactions with siblings are especially difficult because the relationship is often based on what we suspect our siblings are thinking and old perceptions they have about who we are. That’s why having a talk to establish a fresh start has got to be priority number one. Johanna Sozio, a licensed family and relationships counselor practicing out of North Carolina, weighs in on how to make that happen: “My first recommendation is to attempt to have a discussion with regards to what areas are impacting the relationship. Whether it be the age-old comparison game or sibling rivalry, attempt to share what you’ve noticed.” Remember that your sibling will see right through you if you try to gloss over an issue or play down your own role in conflict. Sozio advises, “Never start with an accusatory tone, because that can heighten the tone of the conversation to a negative one. Be open and honest without being fake.” Having this conversation in a neutral territory, like a cafe, can make it easier to be mature.